Step Back

The year 2020 may start off surprising and rich, or perhaps for some, as if a rain cloud is hanging over one's head. There is much to be grateful for, and at times, worried about when it comes to existence and acknowledgment of what needs to be done. Most of the time, many things need to be accomplished, especially in a fast-paced world. What may matter more is how one balances common occurrences and not so common factors which can and will disrupt one's life or way-of-being.

A variation of excuses are used to describe bad behavior, prejudice, and hate-filled remarks, to name a few vulgar responses, and when it comes to certain aspects of everyday life for some or even a bout of anger for others. Perhaps a car accident or unforeseen circumstance suddenly occurred, or even a death in the family (God forbid!) which made life harder and more unbearable. Different factors may contribute to why one may lash out or find life harder than usual, but that is not an excuse for one to ever harm his or herself, or others.

All of us must remember to step back! We must step away from that which is causing an unusual amount of stress or grief, and we must take a break. Although it might seem as if time does not cooperate in matters of great distress, it is vital to stay calm, particularly in situations which may otherwise cause one to be the opposite - for, there is a time to react and a time to respond ... one will force one to think in the blink of an eye and the other will have one make a wise decision. Either way, one should step back when possible and think for a moment, What is my greatest response?

Most of us would do well to breathe and respond thoughtfully, even in stressful or heightened situations because so much can get accomplished if more people decided to simply take a step back, inhale/exhale, and make a wise decision. Such a small act may even bring more peace and joy into more lives. For, it is always wise to step back and breathe!

Humility

It is quite interesting how fast one's life can switch and turn. It is my belief that is also takes effort on behalf of those who crave or desire a change; however, it can be hard to come by if one is possibly lost or unknowing of certain ways and options. Nevertheless, it is good to investigate one's potential in not only making a difference in his or her life, but that of others. Too often we get caught up in everyday occurrences, particularly routines, that sometimes we do not notice unique opportunities. Many of us may already be satisfied, as well, with where we are in life, thus making it humbling to know that even if one is happy and content with his or her life, that person (or persons) can still feel the need to share parts of his or her life with others. This is not to state certain people are obligated to share their wealth, it simply means that if one has so much knowledge, resources, or wise words to offer, one should share it to help others. It is an honorable option which can and does make a difference. Even if one may feel that he or she is unable to do or say things to others which uplifts them, it is gratifying to know that we are still here as a species to experience what most of us are capable of doing - producing innovative ways of life, working to ensure our survival, and being accepting of all that is for the benefit of our planet, ourselves, and those living amongst us. Sure, some may say we are more destructive than innovative, but really, life on earth has tested our ability to not only affect those among us, but develop in such a way as to notice who we are and what many of us are capable of doing - loving ourselves, loving each other, and living in the most loving and logical way that is possible. So, take care out there and be ever-humble.

Pain

Some may not understand why there is pain the world. Pain exists so one may grow strong. Pain exists to invoke Fear, which exists so one may appreciate the vulnerability of Life. Life is valuable. Life is fragile - protect it with your heart, which guides you to look within and be at One in Everlasting Peace. Tranquility truly exists, as does Chaos. When one understands the depth and heights in experiencing life, one has truly awakened to Bliss.

Challenges

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Sometimes challenges are put in our way to test our inner strength. It is no surprise that Life comes with a set of responsibilities and spontaneous epiphanies which help to determine our pathway. Though some of us may not feel as successful as we could be, while others may feel on top of the world and have yet to fall, there is some sort of balance we must each recognize to stop the suffering or continue the endless bliss. This is often the time when we find challenges, be it emotional, mental, physical, or environmental.

Be safe out there! Be kind. Be YOU!

NEW

A brand new day,  a brand new start!

This is how I feel about turning this blog into something new. To be able to write about issues I most care about is liberating and what I believe is a significant contribution to society in a smart and reasonable way. Sure, I cannot address every issue I care about with regards to humanity and our planet, but I have always been a woman of words. Supposedly, women are more verbal and thoughtful. We are supposed to care more through nurturance, emotions, and hormones. Whatever the case may be as to why females tend to be more motherly (than not,) I am glad my outlet is through writing. I love to write and I hope many will join me in thoughtful contemplation.


Thank you in advance for reading my work! Feel free to comment on any post or page, but please be respectful.


- Liz P. Vara